It’s just so unfair that hard work rarely ever gets noticed. A simple, “Thank you for your hard work” is really not so much to ask for. Like, you can do so many great things and be unrecognized and yet, you do one little thing wrong and the whole world just wants to give you shit for it. Boggles my fucking mind, man.
Not just for the girl or guy that knew their partner was in a committed relationship, but also for the one who’s in the relationship. And a lot of times, people use the excuse of, “I wasn’t sober, I didn’t know what I was doing!” But that’s still unacceptable. And if you weren’t intoxicated, that just makes it even worse.
You know, I’d like to say people deserve second chances but something like this… This isn’t something you just try to understand or let go of. I don’t believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” but I’m fully aware that if you cheat once, you’re capable doing it again.
I’m sorry that these kind of things happen to you, especially with the ones you like the most. And for once, I really had a good feeling about this one. That she was going to be good to you and for once, you’ll be happy with someone. I’m sorry that the happiness was short-lived. I don’t know what to say besides that I really wish there was something I could do to make that pain in your heart go away…
My boyfriend and I never fight. And by never, I mean we never fight. Some say we’re still stuck in the honeymoon phase of our relationship, but I disagree, I think we’ve passed that stage a while back. He thinks we should fight more and sometimes he’ll try to pick fights with me about the dumbest things but we end up laughing it off. We look at other people’s relationships and think about how the world around us have allowed us to believe that fighting is normal in a relationship and don’t get me wrong, I think fighting here and there is fine but not fighting is better, no? I mean, we do have our bad days but we never go more than a few minutes of being grumpy or annoyed with each other. And I think that’s what makes us realize that we’re not like ordinary couples that fight and think it’s okay to do it because it’s considered “normal.” But I wouldn’t have our relationship any other way because I much rather prefer to be out of the norm than to fit in with everyone else.
Oh and happy belated 8 months to us. :)